So you are constantly giving all of yourself to random people? This my dear is a no no. Just because you are vibeing with someone, does not mean that you have to go all of the way with them. What’s cool about starting family with a man that you don’t even know?
First off this is demeaning and it makes you far from being a Queen. Do you know the characteristics of a regal woman/Queen? We will get into that later.
Most of the women claiming that they are Queens are not even ladies. A lady is not born they are made. A Queen is taught to be one. So if your mother or mother figure was out there and loose, you will be the same way. That title means absolutely nothing without the actions behind it.
Let’s get into having multiple male partners that are the fathers of your children. It shows that you have no standards for yourself. If you are caught up on the title Queen, then clearly you are easily got by complements. A man that just wants one thing will see this coming a mile away. All he has to do is call you cute and get you a chicken meal and down comes baby.
A Queen would have better standards than that. How about a commitment at least
first?! Stop having so many excuses on why things happened. Own and change you ways.
You are not just good enough to lay down with. You may not know that, but you can be more. Get an education, keep up with current events. A good man that is worth something appreciates that. Put some clothes on. When meeting a man, make him think about you mind instead of your body.
Now let’s get into the characteristics of a “Queen”
A Queen holds her head up high and owns her decisions. She is a woman that people will become in awe over her presence. A Queen would make another woman that is around her to want to step her game up. She may have children out of wedlock, but she learns from her decisions and makes changes where it is needed. A Queen would not have more than two baby daddies. Anything over two baby father’s, screams that you are cheap and that you have no standards.
One thing that a Queen does not do is say that she is a Queen. When you are doing what you are supposed to do and your track record is in check, others will see your royal action.
So before getting into a debate about that Queen Card, please make sure that your house is in order.